Memoirs from the Abyss

Just wanted to drop a quick line to let everyone know that I haven’t fallen off the face of the planet, although I do find myself in an abyss of busyness. At work, I’m writing and recording 2 months worth of radio shows between now and next week, my kids started school, which apparently when you are in 1st and 2nd grade means that you need to have and hour and a half of homework every night, and my daughter Riley celebrated her 8th birthday.  We had her party last weekend at the Ice Den (ice scating) and so I have several bruises where the sun-don’t-shine that I am recovering from.

Also, my daughter and I recieved a new sewing machine for our birthdays, and we have committed to doing a little sewing each day, as well as taking a few classes that Viking offers at Joanne’s.  If you read this post about my last machine, you know that it drove me to drink.  I can’t tell you what a huge difference this new machine makes to my enjoyment of sewing.  I will post pics of some of my creations soon.

So, you can discontinue the missing person investigation because I’m just fine.  I’ll be catching a boat back from the abyss soon!

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Fashion School Dropout

This is my second episode of Project Runway.  And there is one thing that I know for darn-sure. I know NOTHING about fashion. My 3 favorite looks were Michael C, Christopher and Casanova.

My taste is obviously more TJ Maxx and less Fashion Week. 

I am watching this show in an attempt to try to learn something about fashion. Here are the Top Ten things I learned from Episode 4:

10.) If an Oompa-Loompa and a Muppet mated, they would give birth to a Phillip Treacy hat.

9.) 1983 was Donna Karan’s best year.

8.) Trying to turn Quilted Northern into bootie shorts doesn’t impress the judges.

7.) Orchid’s lead to very interesting discussions.

6.)The cardboard milkmaid look is the hottest thing for fall.

5.)Christopher, to answer your question, Mondo is from Megaclite, which is not actually a planet but is one of Jupiter’s moons.

4.) Andy’s design does look expensive.  So does Flava Flav’s grill and Kim Kardashian’s rack.

3.) I heart taffeta!

2.) If I were going to my second cousin’s wedding I would LOVE to wear Ivy’s suit ensemble!

1.) Peach’s dress looks like it may have been made in the “Good China.”

And about the winner, Michael Costello, my TJ Maxx sensibilities really responded to his wrap-kerchief.  It’s one of the only things on the runway that I’d actually wear.  I guess that makes me “so 4 years ago” and “predictable.” But sometimes things are done frequently because they work.

Please feel free to dismiss my opinions as unsophisticated. I admit to that. I am still trying to wrap my head around some of this stuff. I wish we spent less of this 90 minutes about what inspired the designers, and how they stayed true to their “aesthetic”, and more about how they cut, pattern and construct their garments.  That is actually something that we could use. I would be super interested to know what type of stitch they used for their blind hem, or what presser foot they used for their gathered look.  But that’s just me.  Miss practical.

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Thanks Fresh & Easy

So, you may remember this post about the clearance groceries that I so appreciate at Fresh & Easy. Well, apparently someone at the corporate headquarters in California saw my post. I went to the mailbox earlier this week and there was a kind letter from them and guess what else?

Thanks so much Fresh & Easy! If I wasn’t already a huge fan, you have totally won my loyalty now! And the letter from them was signed “The Listening Team.” How awesome is that?!? A company with a whole department just for listening to their consumers.

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Character on the Catwalk- Project Runway Recapalooza!

So, I sat down on the couch on Thursday night to watch my first episode of Project Runway. I have friends who enjoy the show, so I decided to give it a try.  I love seeing what can come out of the mind of creative people.

Last night’s episode (Season 8 Episode 3) had a special challenge where the designers had to go to the party supply store and use whatever they could find to construct their pieces.  I was absolutely amazed by the beautiful designs that came from the unexpected materials of the party store. I agreed with the winner.  There was no doubt in my mind that Andy’s intricate and innovative design deserved to win the challenge.  Where I had a hard time agreeing with the judges was with the loser.

Casanova either didn’t remember, or completely ignored the directions about not using table linens.  Yet, that wasn’t what the judges focused on. They felt his design was in poor taste.  He thought it was amazing.

  Here’s the scizophrenic trainwreck he thinks is “couture.”

Sara, on the other hand, knew that she hadn’t put forth her best. She didn’t listen to her instincts, and she continued to pursue parts of the design plan that she knew weren’t working.  Sometimes “making it work” means knowing when to say “uncle”. When the judges critiqued her work, she responded very humbly. The judges had to choose between eliminating someone who seemed to them to have bad taste, or someone who didn’t trust themselves enough to know when to give up on an aspect of a planned design.  I hoped Sara’s humble response would earn her more points with the judges.  It didn’t.

  Here’s the forced piece that she knew wasn’t her best work.

In life, character is not always rewarded.  We often ignore poor character when the person is famous, beautiful, rich or talented. Sara’s humility might not get her very far in the world of fashion. At least not in the short run. 

It makes me think about the fact that I would rather my kids have character then short term success.  It might not be the fast track to winning cutthroat competitions. But it will eventually be rewarded in this life, and the next. So tell me, what are you doing to encourage humility in your kids? Also, how often to you look for opportunities to discuss character based on shows you watch, media coverage, music etc.? I’d love to hear your thoughts.

Make sure to check out this great blog about all things Project Runway…

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Clearance Food

We’ve discussed in a previous post that our family is on a pretty tight budget these days. I feed my family of four for $50 a week. That means that each member of my family eats for $1.70 a day.  Let that sink in for a minute. Before we moved, we were near 2 large grocery store chains that doubled coupons, so I did really well clipping coupons and matching them with sale prices. I would get items for free this way, but we still struggled to stock our fridge and pantry. I love couponing, but it is really only worthwhile at stores that double coupons. Now that I am working full time, it is harder to find the time to clip coupons and do ad matching and go to several stores in order to get the best deal. Also, our new house is not really very near any large grocery chain. We have a Trader Joe’s and an AJ’s but they’re the opposite direction from where I am always heading (and AJ’s is no place for the budget conscious.) Thank God for Fresh & Easy! It is located right on the way to and from work and the kids’ school.

I pray about everything. I converse with God as I’m going about my day like I would a good friend. I’ve learned over the years that it’s the little things that I pray about that often help me feel closest to Him. Of course the big things are, well, big…and they often result in huge miracles and life changes. But I guess when I pray about how beautiful the clouds are today, and I thank Him that I have just enough gas in my car to get to all of my daily appointments, and ask Him how He thinks I should respond to that email from my realtor, I am struck by the realization that the God of the Universe, who holds all the planets in all the galaxies in their orbits, cares about the insignificant details of my day. He’s listening.

All that to preface that I pray about groceries. I don’t just mean that I pray that God will provide the income for us to buy groceries. When I drive to the store, and before I go inside, I pray that God will guide me in the store. I say, “Lord, You know what our needs are. Please guide me and guard my eyes, that I would only see the things that You want me to buy and I trust that You will provide the items that we need.”

Maybe a shallow prayer, but I don’t think so. To say that I pray every time I grocery shop would imply that I’m a disciplined person, which I’m not. But it is amazing what occurs when I pray.

Exhibit A:

All of this from Fresh & Easy’s clearance food section for $5.44. I couldn’t have made that happen with all the coupon clipping in the world. (2 packages of Tilapia, sourdough English muffins, a pound of grape tomatoes, a pound of pluots, 2 pounds of tangerines, salad dressing, a pound of tomatoes, a pint of sour cream and 2 packages of cookies.)

Exhibit B:

$13 worth of Tide laundry detergent for $1.75

I have also gotten loaves of delicious 9-Grain bread there for $.19, and one of my favorite things in the world…cinnamon raisin bread…for $.30 a loaf. I guess because of their compact stores, the managers have to mark down day old bread, and near date meat, dairy and produce in order to make room for new inventory. I am able to stock my freezer with these items and they are perfectly fresh when I use them.

I wrote a letter to my local Fresh & Easy to thank them for their clearance food section (their regular prices are already very low) and to let them know what a difference it makes for our family. But I thought one of the best ways to thank them would be to ask my readers, if there is one in your neighborhood, to give them a try. They are a great company, and in our case, one of the ways that God answers my prayers and provides for our needs.

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